This pinout looks better. It’s a bit confusing as it’s showing an xray view down through the chip, rather than looking at it from the bottom, but the pin numbers and functions seem to match. Unfortunately the input capacitance is a good bit higher, and the turn on delay is longer.
https://www.farnell.com/datasheets/2729283.pdf
Am I right in thinking that the max drain to source voltage only needs to cope with the 12V rail, so something like a 15V spec would be fine? The original part is specced at 30V, but it might reveal some more options if I can lower that criteria.
Chris